well sometimes i just come out with it, I want real dates to nice places, not some candied camera bull shit that most exspect even though most of them say they don`t have um, or there not working, but want the women`s to work "" and even when just talking most want the women to do most of the talking, and all that show or talking takes a way from what the woman needs to "" she needs a show "" or for the guys to really know how to talk to her to """ but most of us women are really starved for a true loving relationship that`s hard to find, and Most guys don`t know how to talk to her ether.