Why can't people just be happy with what they have, while they have it. When you try to turn something special into more, you change the mixture or the context. Some things in life are meant to be fleeting. Don't try to hold on to something that wasn't meant to last. And stop worrying about when you might lose it. Worrying, wondering or trying to change it, could shorten the lifespan of something wonderful. Accept that you may not get to keep it, and love it with all you can while you have the opportunity. If it's not meant to last, there's nothing you can do but try to prolong the inevitable. If it is meant to last...... It Simply.... Will.