Why is it so hard to find someone worth the trouble of dating or being in a relationship with? It seem no one wants that anymore. They just wanna use someone for what they can get out of them and then move on to the next. I guess its why I stay single because I can't seem to find someone worth the trouble of being in a relationship. Its all about games and using someone for sex or there money. I don't need a man in my life I get my own stuff I don't need a man for that. I just want a man for his company and someone to cuddle up at night with why is it so damn hard to find someone worth a damn I will never understand.